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Review

  • Decide if you should get a lawyer or if it is reasonable and safe to go forward on your own.
  • Read this online guide to learn about the legal process.
  • Get your court forms packet. If you use our interactive online forms, you must still purchase the Summons form from the court. The Summons costs $5.
  • Read the court forms instruction sheet.
  • Fill out the forms.

I have been scheduled for a pre-trial conference. What is that?

As you have seen, the Court does everything it can to try to help you come to an agreement about the terms of your Court Order. But sometimes that just isn't possible. If the Court thinks that you have exhausted all other possible solutions, the Judge will schedule a "pre-trial conference” or “Pre-Try.” Hopefully something will happen during the conference to help you decide your final difficult issues. Failing that, at the conference the Court will issue a "pre-trial order" which includes:

What is an interim hearing? Do I need to have one?

When there are urgent issues that need to be addressed before your case is finished, you may want to ask for an “expedited interim hearing.” An interim hearing is not held in every case, but it can happen at any stage before a final hearing if and when it is needed. The court considers many factors when deciding whether or not to hold an interim hearing. For example, the court may decide to have an interim hearing if your child will be hurt by the delay, or a delay will make it harder for the court to later make a full and fair decision.

Mediation

Mediation is a process in which a mediator tries to help parties come to agreements. A mediator is a trained neutral who does not take sides. The mediator will try to help you solve these issues:

Final Uncontested Hearing

What if we have an agreement?

If you and your spouse have agreed on all the issues and at least 60 days have passed from the date of service, you can let the Judge know you have an agreement and finalize your divorce that day. This is called an uncontested hearing.

At the hearing, the Judge will ask the Plaintiff to answer a few simple questions, such as: