Domestic Violence

Domestic violence is sometimes called "abuse." The person who is violent is called the "abuser." Domestic violence is against the law in Maine and in the United States. Hitting, slapping, punching, kicking, and threatening violence are crimes. You have the right to be safe.

Getting help

If you, a child or an older person is in immediate danger, call the Police (dial 9-1-1). The police are trained to deal with domestic violence. In some cases, they will arrest* the abuser. This is considered the best way to immediately halt the violence. Even if they do not arrest the abuser, they will keep a record of event. This record can be used later in a legal action.

You can also call a "hotline." A "hotline" is a telephone number for people to call who are being abused. The call is usually free. You can call anytime, day or night. The people who answer the telephone are trained to help you. They will not tell the abuser you have called. They will give you information about how to deal with a violent situation. They will also give you information about your rights. (See Resources below.)

You do not have to stay in a home where you are being abused. You can go to a shelter. Shelters are places where you and your children can stay temporarily. Shelters will not tell the abuser you are there. Shelters have counselors who can help you decide what to do about the abuse. They can give you information about programs that will help you if you decided to leave your abuser. (See Resources below.)

You can get protection in Maine Courts. You can get an Order from the Maine Court to protect you from being abused by a family member, a household member, or a sexual partner. If you are responsible for a minor child, you can ask for an Order on behalf of the child. If you are both being abused, you can ask the Court to give an order that will protect both of you.

Getting help from the Maine Courts.

Go to the District Court (See Government):

where you live, or
where the person who abused you lives, or
where you have gone to escape the abuse

If you are not sure about doing this by yourself, or you have questions, you can contact a domestic violence project in your county. (See Resources below.)

Go to the clerk's office and ask for a Protection from Abuse Complaint* form. You can fill out the form at the courthouse or take it with you to fill out somewhere else.

If you do not feel completely comfortable with English, you have the right to a free interpreter to help you communicate with the court clerk, and in Court. Tell the clerk that you want an interpreter. The Clerk can call a telephone interpreter service to help you understand the process of filing the Protection from Abuse Complaint. The clerk can also arrange for an interpreter to be available the next time you have to go back to Court.

How long it takes to get a Court Order. If you need protection right away, check the box asking for a Temporary Order*. If the judge who reads your complaint agrees that you are in immediate and present danger*, she will give an order right away. The order will take effect as soon as it is served* (See below – What Happens after the Complaint if Filed) on the defendant*. If the judge does not give a temporary order, you will still have the chance to get an order later, after a court hearing.

After you file your complaint. If the judge gave a Temporary Order, the clerk will ask a police officer or deputy sheriff to serve the Complaint and Temporary Order and Notice of Hearing* on the Defendant. The clerk should also give you copies of these papers. The Court must schedule a hearing within 21 days. The Notice of Hearing will tell you the date and time.

If the judge denies the Temporary Order after talking to you, the clerk will fill out a Summons and tell you how to get the other party served with the court papers. This costs money. If you cannot afford the service fee, tell the clerk. She will give you an Application to Proceed Without Payment of Fees* and an Affidavit* form. This form asks for financial information. If the judge agrees that you cannot afford the cost of service, the fee will be waived*.

The Court Hearing. You must go to the Court hearing. If you do not go, the Court will dismiss your case and your Temporary Order will end.

What will happen in Court. At the hearing, you will be asking the judge to continue the Temporary Order for up to two years. To get this, you must prove that the Defendant has abused you (or your child) in at least one of these ways:

trying to hurt you or touch you in a hurtful way
making you afraid by threatening, harassing or tormenting you
forcing you or scaring you into:
---doing something you have the right not to do (such as staying up late at night to entertain or wait on the Defendant when you need to sleep), or
---not doing something you have the right to do (like leaving the house or going to the store)
kidnapping you or treating you like a prisoner
frightening you by threatening to do serious violence to you or to someone else
repeatedly following you or hanging around near your home, school, or work place to keep an eye on you

When you are thinking about how to tell the judge your story, be aware of these legal categories of abuse.

After the hearing, the judge will decide whether to extend your Order. If she does, then there will be questions about what to include in the Order. The Order will usually:

order the Defendant not to have any contact with you
order the Defendant not to hurt you or threaten you or any children in your home
order the Defendant to stay away from your home, school, business or workplace
order the Defendant not to follow you
order the Defendant not to interfere with your property
order the Defendant not to possess a gun or any other dangerous weapon
grant possession of the home to you or the Defendant
order division of personal property
state how long the Order will be in effect (up to two years)

If you have mutual children, the Order may also:

grant temporary parental rights (primary residence and visitation)
order payment of child support (or order filing of child support affidavits so child support can be determined and ordered later)
order an immediate payroll withholding to collect support

You can also ask the judge to order other forms of protection and support that you need. How Protection from Abuse Orders affect immigration status. You do not have to have any immigration papers to get Protection from Abuse. Getting an Order against your partner will not hurt his immigration status. But if you partner disobeys an Order, he may get arrested, which could affect his immigration status.

Protections for Noncitizen Survivors of Domestic Abuse

If you are undocumented or have only temporary immigration status, but your (or your child's) abuser is a U.S. citizen or permanent resident (has his "green card"), you may be able to file paperwork with the Immigration Service to get permanent residency. You must be married to the abuser, or the marriage must have ended less than two years ago. Both physical and psychological/emotional abuse may make you eligible. Your abuser is not part of the process – you can file the paperwork without his help and without his knowledge.

If your abuser is not a U.S. citizen or permanent resident, or if you were never married to him, you still may be able to get legal status on your own in certain cases. This may even be true if you somehow are put in deportation proceedings (for example, if Immigration does a workplace inspection and finds you there), as long as you have already lived in the U.S. for at least three years.

You may have to prove the "good faith" of your relationship with the abuser. This means that you were not with him just so that you could get your "green card" through the relationship. Photographs of you and the abuser together, letters that you may have written to each other before you began living together, bills in both of your names, joint insurance policies etc., can be used to prove the good faith of the relationship. If you leave the abuser, whenever possible, try to take photos and other documents that might help prove the good faith of your relationship with him.

These cases are very complicated. Always get an immigration advocate experienced in representing noncitizen domestic violence survivors to help you. Even if you are working with a family law attorney or with a domestic violence shelter or intervention program, you should have an immigration advocate work on the immigration issues. Your immigration advocate will work closely with your other advocates.

Resources

For immediate help, support, or advice, call the nearest Domestic Violence prevention program Hotline day or night, toll-free or collect:

Abused Women's Advocacy Project
P.O. Box 713
Auburn, ME 04210
Business #: 784-3995 or 786-8854
Hotline/Crisis #: 795-4020
Toll Free #: 1-800-559-2927

Family Violence Project
P.O. Box 304
Augusta, ME 04330
Business #: 623-8637
Hotline/Crisis #: 623-3569
Toll Free #: 1-877-890-7788

Spruce Run
P.O. Box 653
Bangor, ME 04402
Business #: 945-5102
Hotline/Crisis #: 947-0496
Toll Free #: 1-800-863-9909

Womancare
P.O. Box 192
Dover-Foxcroft, ME 04426
Business #: 564-8165
Hotline/Crisis #: 564-8165
Toll Free #: 1-888-564-8165

The Next Step
P.O. Box 1465
Ellsworth, ME 04605
Business #: 667-0176
Hotline/Crisis #: 667-4606
Toll free #: 1-800-315-5579

The Next Step
P.O. Box 303
Machias, ME� 04654
Toll Free Hotline #: 1-888-604-8692

Family Crisis Services
P.O. Box 704
Portland, ME 04104
Business #: 767-4952
Hotline/Crisis #: 874-1973
Toll Free #: 1-800-537-6066

Battered Women's Project
421 Main Street, Suite 2
Presque Isle, ME 04769
Business #: 764-2977
Hotline/Crisis #: 1-800-439-2323

New Hope For Women
P.O. Box A
Rockland, ME 04841-0773
Rockland Hotline and Business #: 594-2128
Toll free #: 1-800-522-3304
Belfast Area Hotline: 338-6569
Damariscotta Area Hotline: 563-2404

Caring Unlimited
P.O. Box 590
Sanford, ME 04073
Business #: 490-3227
Hotline/Crisis #: 324-1802
Toll Free #: 1-800-239-7298

Low-income legal assistance:

Augusta 39 Green Street
P.O. Box 2429
Augusta, ME 04332
622-4731

Bangor 61 Main Street
Bangor, ME 04401
942-8241

Lewiston
145 Lisbon Street
Lewiston, ME 04240
784-1558

Machias
1 School Street
Machias, ME 04654-1417
255-8656

Portland
88 Federal Street
P.O. Box 547
Portland, ME 04112-0547
774-8211

Presque Isle
373 Main Street
Presque Isle, ME 04769
764-4349

More information: Information Guide for Abused Women in Maine
Ask for copy at a Domestic Violence Project, listed above.

Protection from Abuse: How the Law Works in Maine
http://www.ptla.org/cliented/pfa.htm

Domestic Violence Safety Plan
http://www.newhopeforwomen.org/safety.html

Immigration Legal Aid in Maine

Immigrant Legal Advocacy Project
309 Cumberland Avenue, Suite 201
Portland, Maine 04101
207-780-1593 or 1-800-497-8505
info@ilapmaine.org
Services are free or low-fee depending on income
Walk-in consultations with an immigration lawyer are available every Friday. Call for hours.

Private Immigration Lawyers: See the "Immigration Law" listing under "Lawyers" in the Yellow Pages of the phone book.